I, along with the rest of the wikiteam, will give you the benefit of the doubt and assume you are a new user here, and that means this is your one warning: this is not how you handle a friend being banned, especially when that friend was being an active problem. I can explain how your understanding (and presumably Marty's) of the situation is incorrect. Before I do that though, I need to know you're calm enough that you will actually listen to me instead of looking for all the justifications to explain why Marty was actually in the right.
Your post has been deleted because it repeated the very things that we banned Marty for. I'm giving you a one-day block to let you cool down. Take at least a day away from this situation, and come back when you're ready. And above all: respect that Fancymancer is using a pseudonym here, and wants that professional distance between his IRL & online identity. It doesn't matter that his name is on his Twitter account. He's asked us to preserve that separation, as alluded to in the summary of Marty's proposal thread, and that means we'll be enforcing that boundary.
